My lovely roommate~
i think most of the UUM student will have their each and own roommate experience. Different roommate will have different personality and habits. For the past five semester, i had experience same roommate since semester 1 until semester 3;stay alone in semester 4;and stay with a new roommate in semester 5.
I think the knowledge of how to get along with our roommate is the things that we should learn. Maintain a good relationship with your roommate is not easy. I find that many of my friend also have problem with their roommate. They are not happy to each others. but i really fortunate and appreciate that i had two goodroommate. I can stay harmony with each other. I think there is some secret to stay harmony and peacefully with your roommate. Let me share with u my little secret on how to stay happily with your roommate:
1) you must respect each others
-respect means u have to respect each others privacy. U have to greeting with them EVERYDAY as possible u can. for me, i will say hi,im back or smile whenever i come back from class. and say good morning when i wake up. This seem to be very useless and silly to do with, but this is really help me alots to create a harmony relationship with your roommate. this show that u respect them, u recognize their 'existence' in the room.
2) Be tolerate to each other
-no one is perfect. everyone has its own strength and weakness. Maybe he is lazy to clean the room? lazy to close the door? lazy to close the light? If he decided not to chance the behavior,let it be. dont fight or mumbling on it. u just do it, clean the room urself,close the door urself. be a hardworking man.Ok?
-when your lovely roommate is about time to sleep, please dont make any noise in the room, and please close the room light and only use the table lamp. If and only when ur roommate is sensitive about light. This action really show that u concern about him and respest him. he really can feel that. and guess what he will do the same things to u when it is your turn to sleep. this is what so called: 'what goes around,what come around.'
Hope u all will have a good time staying with ur roommate! Cheers=)


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